I’ve been awake since probably 4. Which is alright cause I’ve been talking to my Father and His Son about many things concerning our future and life as humans in general. I’ve been listening mostly as THEY share with me and clear up the confusion that the serpent has been blinding humanity with for thousands of years. The biggest and most wounding confusion started with and has been, since the garden, “humanities sexual makeup.”

Our sexuality was and is the core of the Apple. The center of our souls, our hearts. Satan is not lost in this and that is why he targets that part of all of us from little kids even. The confusion and darkness can be simplified in whether we as people “take” or “give”. Simply put, the holiness of God handed down and placed within our centers is the calling for each of us to be “givers” of love NOT “takers”. A true blue giving of one self is manifested in sacrifice and centers on the desire to BLESS and BUILD up someone. To ADD to their lives. Givers desire to see another reach their highest possible fulfillment God offers them. Givers deny themselves if need be to see another happy.

On the other hand, “takers” suck from someone else much like a leach would suck the life or blood from it’s victim. A taker is self seeking. It is a perpetual welfare system in operation from the heart. It does not makes its own bread but remains in a constant babyhood of dependency on someone else’s sacrifices. When it comes to sexuality, it takes from another to meet its own needs and cravings even to the point of total disregard for any consequences that may arise in the “taking act”.

Givers by contrast are so lost in meeting the others needs that they totally forget their selves and focus on satisfying that others physical or emotional needs and cravings even to their own hurt or sacrifice. The confusion that can only be discerned by the Holy Spirit of God in all this, especially when it comes to our sexuality is the question, “am I taking right now? Or am I giving?” IF we could all be honest and not hide and lie, the answer would be clear, but the confusion enters in when we refuse to embrace truth in our in most parts, our heart of hearts.

Men or the male counterpart of human beings, are called by God almighty to be givers not takers. Each of us are called by our maker to find our own female counterpart and lay down our lives in total sacrifice for her so she can feel safe and build a home, a nest, to nurture babies from a holy union or marriage that comes from an exclusive intimacy with our wife. By contrast, when a man takes from a woman instead of giving, when a baby comes from the union he is agitated and bothered or should one say, burdened by his new responsibility he must shoulder instead of blessed. This is evil and a sign he was and is not giving love but taking. True Godly love will always put another’s needs ahead of its own. If a man wants sex from a woman but does not want to provide for her, he is taking only and not giving.

Women have or should have a built in desire to hand themselves over to be cared for by their male counterparts or husbands. When this submission, this giving heart or attitude plays out, it will manifest in a desire for her to be a mother and home maker, and ultimately give herself sexually in an exclusive intimate love making act. She desires to give herself to her husband. She opens herself up to her husband and ONLY him. A sign that things have turned into taking instead of giving is when the woman grudgingly gives herself and only IF she is going to be compensated in someway for her sacrifice in the form of control, which is power, or maybe some kind of material gain or benefit for herself directly or her children. This kind of taking is self serving and is not pure but really selfishness. A taking woman will usually reveal her evil soul when she more and more seeks emotional attention from another source other than her husband. This kind of betrayal eventually will end up in a giving of herself sexually to another man rather than her husband. Usually the man she is emotionally involved with or taking from.

Humanity from the beginning were created to manifest in the physical world what God is really like. One can see when we read about Jesus, Gods only begotten Son, that he was a perfect example of this calling. He is our example of our calling as people. Jesus laid down his life on a constant basis or act of sacrificial love every day of his earthly walk. He totally lived for his Father’s will or desires! This was manifested in his daily giving to others and finally the ultimate act of death on the cross when he died in our place. Greater love has no man than one who lays his life down for his friends or should we say “family.” Whether male or female, we each have a choice to be a “giver” or a “taker”. What side are you on? Are you a child of God or are you the seed of Satan. The proof of this question is played out every day of our lives. All of humanity is accountable to God our maker for how each of us have lived our lives. Nothing is hidden from His sight. Are we taking or giving?